
Golden Retrievers are widely loved for their gentle nature, intelligence, and family-friendly temperament. However, like all breeds, they can develop behavior challenges—especially if their physical, mental, and emotional needs aren’t fully met. Understanding these issues early makes training easier, improves daily life, and strengthens the bond between you and your dog.
This guide covers the most common behavioral challenges in Golden Retrievers, why they happen, and what owners can do to manage or prevent them.
Excessive Chewing and Destructive Behavior

Golden Retrievers are mouth-oriented dogs by nature. Bred to retrieve game gently, they instinctively explore the world with their mouths.
Common causes include:
- Teething in puppies
- Boredom or lack of stimulation
- Anxiety when left alone
- Excess energy without an outlet
Destructive chewing often shows up as damaged furniture, shoes, or household items. While frustrating, it’s rarely done out of spite.
How to reduce chewing problems:
- Provide a variety of durable chew toys
- Rotate toys to keep interest high
- Increase daily exercise and playtime
- Use crate training appropriately for unsupervised time
Jumping on People
Golden Retrievers are enthusiastic greeters. Jumping is often a sign of excitement and affection rather than aggression.
Why it happens:
- Reinforced as a puppy when people reward the behavior
- High social drive and friendliness
- Lack of impulse control training
Although friendly, jumping can be problematic with children, elderly guests, or strangers.
Ways to manage jumping:
- Ignore the dog until all four paws are on the ground
- Teach and reward an alternative behavior like “sit”
- Ask guests to avoid eye contact or physical attention until calm
- Be consistent—mixed signals slow progress
Pulling on the Leash
Golden Retrievers are energetic walkers, especially young adults. Without training, leash pulling can quickly become a habit.
Common contributors:
- Excitement during walks
- Inconsistent leash rules
- Insufficient exercise before walks
Leash pulling isn’t dominance—it’s usually enthusiasm combined with poor guidance.
Helpful strategies:
- Use a front-clip harness for better control
- Practice loose-leash walking in low-distraction areas
- Stop walking when pulling occurs and resume when slack returns
- Reward calm walking with treats and praise
Separation Anxiety
Because Golden Retrievers form strong emotional bonds, they’re more prone to separation anxiety than some independent breeds.
Signs may include:
- Excessive barking or whining when alone
- Destructive behavior focused near exits
- Pacing or drooling
- House soiling despite being trained
Separation anxiety is a serious emotional issue, not misbehavior.
Ways to ease separation anxiety:
- Gradually increase alone time
- Avoid dramatic departures and arrivals
- Provide puzzle toys during absences
- Create a calm, predictable routine
- Seek professional help for severe cases
Excessive Barking
Golden Retrievers are not typically excessive barkers, but barking can develop if needs aren’t met.
Common triggers include:
- Boredom or frustration
- Alert barking at sounds or passersby
- Attention-seeking behavior
- Anxiety or fear
Barking becomes problematic when it’s constant or uncontrollable.
Management tips:
- Identify and address the trigger
- Increase physical and mental exercise
- Avoid yelling, which can reinforce barking
- Teach a “quiet” cue and reward compliance
Overexcitement and Poor Impulse Control
Many Golden Retrievers struggle with calm behavior, especially during adolescence.
This may show up as:
- Difficulty settling indoors
- Overreacting to guests
- Ignoring commands when excited
- Mouthing during play
This isn’t stubbornness—it’s delayed emotional maturity combined with high enthusiasm.
How to improve impulse control:
- Practice short, focused training sessions
- Teach “place” or “settle” commands
- Reward calm behavior, not just obedience
- Incorporate structured routines
Resource Guarding
While less common in Golden Retrievers, resource guarding can occur, particularly around food, toys, or resting areas.
Warning signs include:
- Growling when approached
- Freezing or stiff body posture
- Snapping when items are removed
This behavior often stems from insecurity or past experiences rather than aggression.
Steps to address guarding:
- Avoid punishment, which worsens fear
- Trade items using high-value treats
- Feed in a calm, predictable environment
- Work with a qualified trainer if needed
Lack of Mental Stimulation
Golden Retrievers are highly intelligent and thrive on mental challenges. Without them, behavioral problems often emerge.
Signs of under-stimulation:
- Restlessness
- Attention-seeking behavior
- Destructive habits
- Disobedience despite knowing commands
Mental enrichment ideas:
- Puzzle feeders and scent games
- Advanced obedience or trick training
- Structured play like fetch with rules
- Rotating activities to prevent boredom
Final Thoughts
Golden Retrievers are loving, loyal, and eager to please—but they still need guidance, structure, and enrichment. Most behavioral challenges stem from unmet needs rather than bad temperament. With consistent training, adequate exercise, and patience, these issues are highly manageable.
Understanding your Golden Retriever’s behavior isn’t just about fixing problems—it’s about building a balanced, confident dog who thrives as part of your family.
